Good boundaries are an essential ingredient to having your space. They are an essential ingredient to healthy relationships. They keep your chakras, energies, and dynamics, clean, pure and clear.

Everything, every encounter in life gifts us opportunity to increase our boundaries. With good boundaries we are strong. Boundaries are not something to fight for, they are something to place as a way of defining yourself.  Knowing yourself within it all. Boundaries exist on an energy level. They define your spiritual anatomy, your energetic space from everything else in the world and beyond. Boundaries are meant to be firm but soft. They are meant to be playful not defensive and above all are a gift to yourself and others.

Commingling energy is not fun. Entangling yourself with another creates confusion, interruption, and disagreement. Allowing another to be outside of yourself and visa versa is a good start to creating a boundary that is healing. At times other beings think thoughts of you. These thoughts are not you, nor are they something that should exist inside of your energetic space, as it is anothers divine right to think what ever they choose weather it be good, bad, or ugly about you. However allot of times when someone thinks a thought about you it is projected into your space and gets muddied with your energy. It does not belong to you, nor does it assist you because it is not your vibration to work with. This is where boundaries benefit both parties. Allowing another their right to think, matriculate, compare, analyze is their divine right. If they constantly choose to think thoughts that are un-pure, judgmental, opinionated or of a vibration that does not coincide with your being and it is about you, you may struggle haphazardly if you do not have good boundaries.

Letting another person think thoughts of you in your space is where your boundaries need work, not the other way around. Your boundaries are about your definition and space to be you. Another is not more powerful than you in your own space and this is a boundary. Where you stray from this is where you gave a bit of your space to another and have a huge opportunity to reclaim you in the process of your self  healing and boundary work. Boundaries are fun as they gift you an opportunity to learn where you have unwanted open doors to your aura. They can be loving as you break down myths that allow energy to become entwined and tangled with others. Can you define yourself clearly? Can you include love in your boundary? Is there play and fun when you set intention for boundary? Boundaries are huge opportunities to create definition and are something we play with in the conscious living curriculum. If you would like to have a reading on your boundaries, how you set them and what they do for self definition call Cynthia, it is a really great gift to yourself.

In Joy,

Cynthia Warwick Seiler

Rainbow Institute/ Conscious Living Curriculum